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Rethinking my drinking (sober curious)

Take an honest look at your drinking, try a break, and see what changes — whether you want to cut back or stop.

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Today's world~15 minBrief interventionMotivational interviewing

Rethinking my drinking (sober curious)

Take an honest look at your drinking, try a break, and see what changes — whether you want to cut back or stop.

Why this helps

Fewer Americans drink than at almost any time since Gallup began asking in 1939: in 2026, 54% said they drink, tying the previous year's record low, and about half now see even moderate drinking as unhealthy. A break — like a dry month — and noticing what changes is a simple, low-pressure experiment.

If you drink heavily every day, don't stop suddenly without talking to a doctor — alcohol withdrawal can be dangerous. If you're in abstinence-based recovery, alcohol-free beer and 'mocktails' that mimic your old drink can be triggers; talk it over with your sponsor or counselor.

1. Why I'm thinking about my drinking now

2. What my drinking looks like

Check any that apply

  • Most days
  • Mostly weekends
  • To unwind after work
  • To fall asleep
  • In social situations
  • Alone
  • More than I planned to
  • Hard to stop once I start
  • Hangovers affect my work or family

3. What drinking gets me — and what it costs me

4. My goal

Pick one

  • A 30-day alcohol-free break
  • Cut back
  • Stop for good
  • Not sure yet

5. My plan — what I'll drink instead, how I'll handle social events and evenings

6. Who I'll tell, and who might give me a hard time

7. After a week or two: what I noticed (sleep, mood, energy, money, anxiety)

8. Was it harder to stop than I expected? What does that tell me?

If it's been harder than you thought, that's useful information — a doctor, counselor or support group can help.

From the Workbook on Amity Connect, via RecoveryHome.comFor reflection and practice — not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional care. In crisis, call or text 988.amityconnect.com/app/workbook/sober-curious
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It comes from the Amity Connect workbook, built by the same team as RecoveryHome, and is free to print and share. It's for reflection and practice — not a diagnosis, and not a substitute for professional care. Content is never written or edited by advertisers. If you're in crisis, call or text 988.
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