Thoughts & feelings~15 minDBT
Crisis survival kit
Build a personal kit of distress-tolerance skills for the moments when you just need to get through without making things worse.
DBT's distress tolerance skills (Linehan) are for crises you can't solve right now — the goal is to get through without making things worse. Calming your body, distracting your mind and soothing your senses lower the intensity enough for you to think again.
If you're thinking about suicide or are in danger, call or text 988 now, or call 911.
- STOP: Stop. Take a step back. Observe what's happening inside and around you. Proceed mindfully.
- Calm your body: breathe out longer than you breathe in, tense and release your muscles, or take a brisk walk.
- Distract: an activity, helping someone, a funny show, a puzzle, a change of scene.
- Self-soothe through your five senses: something to see, hear, smell, taste and touch.
- Weigh it: the pros and cons of acting on the urge versus riding it out.
1. How I know I'm heading into crisis mode (body, thoughts, urges)
2. Body-calming skills I'll use
Check any that apply
3. Distractions that work for me
Check any that apply
4. One self-soothing idea for each sense: sight, sound, smell, taste, touch
5. Pros and cons: acting on the urge vs. riding it out
6. Where I'll keep a physical kit, and what's in it
A box by my bed: playlist, lavender lotion, photo of my kids, gum, a list of numbers.
7. People I'll contact when I need to
8. A sentence to read in the moment
"This feeling is temporary. I don't have to act on it."