Anxiety, stress & panic~12 minCBT
Worry time and the worry tree
Sort worries into ones you can act on and ones you can't — then give the second kind a set time.
Postponing worry to a set 'worry time' each day reduced worrying in studies by Borkovec and colleagues. The 'worry tree' (Butler & Hope) splits practical problems, which need a plan, from hypothetical what-ifs, which need letting go.
- When a worry shows up, ask: is this a problem I can do something about right now?
- If yes, make a plan and take the first step.
- If no, write it down and postpone it to your worry time.
- Worry time: 15–20 minutes, same time each day, not right before bed. When it's over, stop.
1. What I've been worrying about
2. Practical worries — things I can act on — and the first step for each
3. Hypothetical 'what ifs' I can't do anything about right now
4. My daily worry time (when and where)
6:30pm at the kitchen table, 15 minutes
5. What I'll tell myself when a worry pops up outside worry time
"Noted. That's for 6:30."
6. After a week: what happened to the worries I postponed?