Cravings & relapse prevention~12 minRelapse prevention
Small decisions, big slides
Trace how 'harmless' little choices set up a relapse — and spot the ones you're making now.
Relapse prevention research describes 'apparently irrelevant decisions' — small choices that don't look like relapse but steadily move you toward a high-risk situation (Marlatt & Gordon). Seeing the chain lets you step off it earlier.
1. Think of a past slip or near miss. Work backward: what small choices led there?
Kept their number → said yes to a ride → 'just stopping by' → …
2. Small decisions I make that can set me up
Check any that apply
3. Small decisions I'm making right now that could be the first links in a chain
4. Safer choices I could make instead
5. Who I'll tell about these, so it's harder to slide