How do I spot a bad sober living house before moving in?
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Sam_H
asked 7 days ago
Leaving residential in two weeks and the discharge list has six sober living options. They range from $450 to $1,400 a month. How do I tell the real ones from the flophouses?
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GroundedGreg
Helpful answeranswered 7 days ago
Visit in person, always. Green flags: NARR certification (or your state's equivalent), a written resident agreement, real house rules with drug testing they can explain, a house manager who's reachable, and residents who'll talk to you. Red flags: cash only, 'move in tonight' pressure, overcrowded rooms, no visible structure, or — the big one — the house requiring you to attend a specific IOP they're cozy with. That last one can mean the house makes money off your treatment, not your rent, and those places have a way of evicting people whose insurance runs out. Price alone tells you almost nothing; the contract and the visit tell you everything.
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QuietCourage
answered 7 days ago
Ask 'what happens if someone relapses?' A good house has a humane, clear answer. A bad house either has no answer or a cruel one.
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